{"id":1790,"date":"2019-04-11T02:17:13","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T02:17:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.resourcezoneinternational.com\/?p=1790"},"modified":"2019-06-20T04:42:00","modified_gmt":"2019-06-20T04:42:00","slug":"emotional-intelligence-a-critical-workplace-skill","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/?p=1790","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Intelligence \u2013 a Critical Workplace Skill"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Emotional-Intelligence1.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1791\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Emotional-Intelligence1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"723\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Emotional-Intelligence1.jpg 723w, https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Emotional-Intelligence1-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 723px) 100vw, 723px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>For many decades, it has been the view of the majority of leaders that individuals should be hired and placed in positions, mainly based on their knowledge and general intelligence. This suggests that it is mental capacity that has been highly valued when it comes to considering individuals. However, in the last 20 years or so, another factor has been increasingly in the mix \u2013\u00a0not so much mental intelligence but emotional intelligence. So, what specifically do we mean when we talk about emotional intelligence? Although it continues to evolve, one definition is that emotional intelligence is the ability to identify, understand, use, manage and control emotions. This includes not only our own emotions but also those of others.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: -0px;\">Although it has strong links with the work of social intelligence carried out by Wilson Learning in the late 1950\u2019s and 60\u2019s, the original research on emotional intelligence was carried out by the two psychologists Peter Salovey and John Mayer in the late1980\u2019s and early 1990\u2019s. They suggested that emotional intelligence has three main branches:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The appraisal and Expression of Emotion<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The regulation of Emotion<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The utilization of Emotion.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: -0px;\">Under this key third branch they list four more categories. Each of these categories encompasses one way that we can utilize our emotions. \u00a0These categories or skills are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Flexible Planning<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Creative Thinking<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Redirected Attention and<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Motivation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Although Salovey and Mayer\u2019s work made a significant impact in psychological circles, it was left to others such as Goleman, Bar-on and Seligman to popularize the concept in relation to the workplace. These writers broadly suggested that in application terms a more useful and less academic model is that there are four attributes that make up emotional intelligence \u2013 self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management. Let\u2019s therefore briefly look at each of these parts of emotional intelligence in more detail.<\/p>\n<h4>Self-Awareness<\/h4>\n<p>Being completely aware of yourself and your emotions is naturally difficult. However, spending more reflective time on better understanding how you think and act can help every individual to not only become more in tune with how he or she sees him or herself but also with how he\/she reacts to others in the workplace.<\/p>\n<h4>Self-Management<\/h4>\n<p>Self-management is clearly tied to self-awareness and is all about a person\u2019s ability to control impulsive feelings. The theory here is that once you\u2019re aware of how you react to others, you\u2019ll be better equipped to deal with some of the most challenging aspects of managing your emotions.<\/p>\n<h4>Social Awareness<\/h4>\n<p>This is the ability to understand the needs and concerns of others by being emotionally in tune with the feelings and issues raised by others. Increasing skills in this area will help to make a better person and leader because he or she will have heightened levels of empathy.<\/p>\n<h4>Relationship Management<\/h4>\n<p>This is the ability to nurture relationships and inspire people. With relationship management as one of your skills, an individual is better placed to create the culture or climate in which a reporting team can do their best work.<\/p>\n<h3>Summary<\/h3>\n<p>None of the above is taught as a specific subject in college or even very often as part of a training course curriculum. They are critical subjects nonetheless. Each and every one of the above is integral to individual success and especially when leading others directly in any kind of informal or formal role. The ability to express and control the emotions of both ourselves and others is not only critical for our own success as a leader but also helps us to better understand, interpret, and respond to the emotions of those we lead.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1806 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Jon-Warner-e1560597229350.jpg\" alt=\"Jon Warner\" width=\"145\" height=\"128\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Jon Warner is a prolific author, management consultant and executive coach with over 25 years experience.\u00a0 He has an MBA and a PhD in Organizational Psychology.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Discipleship-Colin.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1229 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Discipleship-Colin.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"145\" height=\"160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Discipleship-Colin.jpg 529w, https:\/\/blog.resourcezone.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Discipleship-Colin-272x300.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 145px) 100vw, 145px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Colin is the Director of ResourceZone.\u00a0 He has 30 years of ministry experience as a pastor, college lecturer and consultant\/coach to consultants, denominational leaders and local church pastors.\u00a0 He can be reached at <a href=\"mailto:info.blog@resourcezone.com.au\">info.blog@resourcezone.com.au<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Resources<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.resourcezone.com.au\/emotional-intelligence-skill-builder-booklet-ministry-specific-resource-pdf\">Emotional Intelligence<strong><u>: <\/u><\/strong>Skill Builder Booklet \u2013 Ministry Specific Resource (PDF)<\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.resourcezone.com.au\/emotional-intelligence-coaching-guide-storyboard-ministry-specific-resource-pdf\">Emotional Intelligence: Coaching Guide with Storyboard \u2013 Ministry Specific Resource (PDF)<\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.resourcezone.com.au\/emotional-intelligence-storyboard-ministry-specific-resource-pdf\">Emotional Intelligence Storyboard \u2013 Ministry Specific Resource (PDF)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For many decades, it has been the view of the majority of leaders that individuals should be hired and placed in positions, mainly based on their knowledge and general intelligence. 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