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One of the things coaches least like to do is take stock of how well they are doing in their coaching relationships. The very line of inquiry puts us in a vulnerable position. After all, people would tell us if something was wrong, wouldn\u2019t they? Or we\u2019d sense it, wouldn\u2019t we? Probably best to just continue along a smooth path without throwing potential barriers in our own way.<\/p>\n
Yet by having the courage to ask the hard questions – the ones we may not like the answers to – we can model precisely the kinds of qualities we are helping to develop in those we are coaching. Those qualities include courage, resilience, a commitment to doing your best, and a reliance on God for our self-esteem rather than others.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re willing to take the risk, here are some good questions you can ask:<\/p>\n
\u2022 What progress have you made through our coaching relationship so far?
\n\u2022 What am I doing (or not doing) that is helpful to you?
\n\u2022 What do you wish I would do more often?
\n\u2022 What changes might be helpful?<\/p>\n
Note that none of these questions have pre-conceived answers or lead people toward particular conclusions. The goal is to foster honest communication. To the end, you should take the posture of listening with an open mind to whatever the Spirit might be communicating. The result will be stronger and more effective coaching relationships.<\/p>\n
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Dr. Bob Logan has worked in full time ministry for over thirty five years as a church planter, pastor, mission leader, consultant, and ministry coach. He is internationally recognized as an authority in church planting, church growth, leadership development and coaching. Bob\u2019s current areas of focus are coaching, speaking, and developing leaders in missional and incarnational contexts. Bob lives with his wife Janet in Los Angeles. He can be contacted at bob@loganleadership.com<\/p>\n
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Are you ready to take your coaching to the next level? We recommend the following:
\nThe 360 Online Coaching Assessment <\/strong>\u2013\u00a0a research-based assessment tool built around nine core coaching competencies. This assessment is a quick and effective way to get accurate feedback on a person\u2019s current level of coaching skills http:\/\/www.resourcezone.com.au\/360-degree-line-coach-assessment<\/a><\/p>\n